Nurse reveals the top 5 regrets people make on their deathbed

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9 g: s7 P" }" K  v0 }found this article and it was kinda good... so decided to share...
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: G: X# l) A1 ]8 ^5 Ptvb now,tvbnow,bttvbBy Bronnie Ware (who worked for years nursing the dying)公仔箱論壇9 M! R0 C$ z" N
1. I wish I'd had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me.: K/ C8 d! i+ R6 w. W

4 ]% ~8 P5 P; j" x0 [This was the most common regret of all. When people realise that their life is almost over and look back clearly on it, it is easy to see how many dreams have gone unfulfilled. Most people have had not honoured even a half of their dreams and had to die knowing that it was due to choices they had made, or not made. 公仔箱論壇- g3 Z' h$ y0 N2 H1 @
It is very important to try and honour at least some of your dreams along the way. From the moment that you lose your health, it is too late. Health brings a freedom very few realise, until they no longer have it. 1 ~  a3 c" @, G; f, ~

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This came from every male patient that I nursed. They missed their children's youth and their partner's companionship. Women also spoke of this regret. But as most were from an older generation, many of the female patients had not been breadwinners. All of the men I nursed deeply regretted spending so much of their lives on the treadmill of a work existence. tvb now,tvbnow,bttvb& e4 I, b- Q) Z* B- \0 R
By simplifying your lifestyle and making conscious choices along the way, it is possible to not need the income that you think you do. And by creating more space in your life, you become happier and more open to new opportunities, ones more suited to your new lifestyle.
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2 C, X9 @1 [2 U- k- RMany people suppressed their feelings in order to keep peace with others. As a result, they settled for a mediocre existence and never became who they were truly capable of becoming. Many developed illnesses relating to the bitterness and resentment they carried as a result. TVBNOW 含有熱門話題，最新最快電視，軟體，遊戲，電影，動漫及日常生活及興趣交流等資訊。  H( S# K4 K6 r4 x9 e# \3 K
We cannot control the reactions of others. However, although people may initially react when you change the way you are by speaking honestly,in the end it raises the relationship to a whole new and healthier level. Either that or it releases the unhealthy relationship from your life. Either way, you win.公仔箱論壇- I8 ?8 G& j8 X/ [4 W6 `6 a. x
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4. I wish I had stayed in touch with my friends. 公仔箱論壇' H. ^. F+ R; u& T
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Often they would not truly realise the full benefits of old friends until their dying weeks and it was not always possible to track them down. Many had become so caught up in their own lives that they had let golden friendships slip by over the years. There were many deep regrets about not giving friendships the time and effort that they deserved.Everyone misses their friends when they are dying.
  N+ C* T: K; a8 T: F1 U- B% u1 tos.tvboxnow.comIt is common for anyone in a busy lifestyle to let friendships slip.But when you are faced with your approaching death, the physical details of life fall away. People do want to get their financial affairs in order if possible. But it is not money or status that holds the true importance for them. They want to get things in order more for the benefit of those they love. Usually though, they are too ill and weary to ever manage this task. It is all comes down to love and relationships in the end. That is all that remains in the final weeks,love and relationships.
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When you are on your deathbed, what others think of you is a long way from your mind. How wonderful to be able to let go and smile again,long before you are dying. 5 f+ i6 n- h8 ]. t

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