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7 T8 O( q7 R5 p& X: |tvb now,tvbnow,bttvbGreece's financial crisis has made some families so desperate they are giving up the most precious thing of all - their children.
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. v8 x+ }/ u4 E/ S$ `, O4 f gos.tvboxnow.comOne morning a few weeks before Christmas a kindergarten teacher in Athens found a note about one of her four-year-old pupils.
- _8 H3 V) @4 \# z"I will not be coming to pick up Anna today because I cannot afford to look after her," it read. "Please take good care of her. Sorry. Her mother."TVBNOW 含有熱門話題,最新最快電視,軟體,遊戲,電影,動漫及日常生活及興趣交流等資訊。9 z7 f; b$ {9 _3 r) N4 h; k- Q
In the last two months Father Antonios, a young Orthodox priest who runs a youth centre for the city's poor, has found four children on his doorstep - including a baby just days old. Another charity was approached by a couple whose twin babies were in hospital being treated for malnutrition, because the mother herself was malnourished and unable to breastfeed. Cases like this are shocking a country where family ties are strong, and failure to look after children is socially unacceptable - they feel to Greeks like stories from the Third World, rather than their own capital city. 1 o% u, N+ m8 m1 z( b
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" M( X; U; N9 C8 A2 D* AStefanos Alevizos - Greek psychologistTVBNOW 含有熱門話題,最新最快電視,軟體,遊戲,電影,動漫及日常生活及興趣交流等資訊。: _4 A( j( j$ i* O _. |$ D/ C: h+ c
Parents who are not able to provide for their child will feel despair, loneliness and anger. They will carry an enormous weight of cultural stigma and shame.
$ d: ^' s" `7 h- e! S& C& Ttvb now,tvbnow,bttvb Children absorb the emotions of their parents, so the child will internalise all the feelings of their parent - particularly guilt. Often they feel they are to blame./ V9 p4 `" T9 s: j
Children taken into care may avoid forming a bond with their carers because they are afraid it would be a betrayal of their parent, and might mean their mother or father will not return for them.
9 d8 e$ { V$ Z5 A: Los.tvboxnow.com When they get older, they are likely to have problems with trust and that will manifest itself in difficulties with relationships. |